Talking stick
The talking stick (English: talking stick ) is an Indian cult object, which for centuries in important discussions and consultations ritual was used to promote the culture of dialogue.
Talking stick as a cult object
Is used z. B. a beautiful root wood, a decorated ceremonial staff, a consecrated bone or a pipe of peace . The talking stick is carefully guarded as a cult object and kept in a special place. The medicine man is often the custodian of the staff. The stick is kept in a decorated pouch or box.
Talking staff round
The speaking stick round is a discussion with a speaking stick, an Indian shamanic technique. The aim is the design of processes, the planning of decisions, the management of crises and conflicts, as well as the appreciation of achievements in groups and communities. The talking stick circles around. Whoever holds it in their hand has the unrestricted attention of everyone in the circle. He speaks (and / or remains silent) about the essentials for as long as he wants. Then he passes the talking stick on.
The essential thing about the ritual is not speaking, but rather “becoming completely attentive” , which is supported by concentrating on the speaking stick. This unrestricted attention is a form of respect for oneself, one's fellow human beings, the group and the bigger picture. The speaker directs his attention inwards in order to seek out what is “the essential” at this moment ( contemplation ) and to share it with the others. The listener directs the attention outwards, towards the speaker, in order to recognize what is the essence of this person at the moment and what this means for the group and the community.
Political and social decisions are also made with the help of this ritual. When everyone involved speaks “from the heart”, when everything essential has been recognized and said, it is also clear what is to be done and how. The decision arises, so to speak, “out of the circle”.
Moderation technique
The speaking group ensures that the conversation runs smoothly. This element is also used as a moderation technique. Here some object (e.g. a ball) is passed around in a circle to enable an orderly conversation.
Web links
literature
- Manitonquat: The Way of the Circle ("Circle Way", 1996). Biber-Verlag, Extertal 2000, ISBN 3-9806236-1-0 .
- Virginia Coyle, Jack Zimmermann: The Great Advice. Hear and speak with the heart, widen the circle ("The Way of Council", 1996). Arbor-Verlag, Freiburg / B. 2010, ISBN 978-3-936855-92-0 .