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'''RSVP''' is an [[Acronym and initialism|initialism]] derived from the [[French language|French]] phrase '''''Répondez s'il vous plaît''''',<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.linternaute.com/dictionnaire/fr/definition/rsvp/|title=Rsvp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire|website=www.linternaute.com|language=fr|access-date=2018-02-27}}</ref> literally meaning "Respond, if you please", or just "Please respond", to require confirmation of an invitation. The initialism "RSVP" is no longer used much in France, where it is considered formal and old-fashioned. In France, it is now more common to use "Réponse attendue avant le&nbsp;...", meaning "[Your] answer is expected before&nbsp;...". In addition, the French initialism "SVP" is frequently used to represent "S'il vous plaît" ("Please").<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.linternaute.com/dictionnaire/fr/definition/svp/|title=Svp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire|website=www.linternaute.com|language=fr|access-date=2018-02-27}}</ref>
'''RSVP''' is an [[Acronym and initialism|initialism]] derived from the [[French language|French]] phrase '''''"Répondez s'il vous plaît"''''',<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.linternaute.com/dictionnaire/fr/definition/rsvp/|title=Rsvp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire|website=www.linternaute.com|language=fr|access-date=2018-02-27}}</ref> meaning '''"Please respond"''' (literally '''"Respond, if it pleases you"'''), to require confirmation of an invitation. The initialism "RSVP" is no longer used much in France, where it is considered formal and old-fashioned. In France, it is now more common to use "Réponse attendue avant le&nbsp;...", meaning "[Your] answer is expected before&nbsp;...". In addition, the French initialism "SVP" is frequently used to represent "S'il vous plaît" ("Please").<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.linternaute.com/dictionnaire/fr/definition/svp/|title=Svp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire|website=www.linternaute.com|language=fr|access-date=2018-02-27}}</ref>


==Variations==
==Variations==
The phrase "RSVP, regrets only",&nbsp;– or simply "Regrets only", is a popular modern variation that implies "if you do not reply, that will be taken as an acceptance." More specifically, if most invitations can be assumed to be accepted, a "regrets only" RSVP will reduce the communication required by both the host and their guests. The phrase "Regrets only" refers to the assumption that a declination will be worded with some variation of "We regret we cannot attend&nbsp;...".<ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.announcingit.com/how_to/RSVP_vs_Regrets_Only.htm |title=RSVP vs. Regrets Only |website=www.announcingit.com |series=Invitation Do's and Don'ts}}</ref>
The phrase "RSVP, regrets only" or "Regrets only", is a popular modern variation that implies "if you do not reply, that will be taken as an acceptance." More specifically, if most invitations can be assumed to be accepted, a "regrets only" RSVP will reduce the communication required by both the host and the guests. The phrase "Regrets only" refers to the assumption that a declination will be worded with some variation of "We regret we cannot attend&nbsp;...".<ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.announcingit.com/how_to/RSVP_vs_Regrets_Only.htm |title=RSVP vs. Regrets Only |website=www.announcingit.com |series=Invitation Do's and Don'ts}}</ref>


Prior to sending the RSVP invitation, the host may mail out a "save the date" card to advise the date and location of the celebration. This may be used when the event will be held a considerable time in the future and/or in a distant location to allow for travel plans, for such events as a wedding, christening, or any other important event.<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.emilypost.com/weddings/new-times-new-traditions/368-21st-century-wedding-trends|title=Invitation Etiquette|publisher=The Emily Post Institute, Inc.|access-date=2012-06-24}}{{dead link|date=June 2020|bot=medic}}{{cbignore|bot=medic}}</ref>
Before sending the RSVP invitation, the host may mail out a "[[wikt:save the date|save the date]]" card to advise the date and location of the celebration. This may be used when the event will be held considerably in the future and/or in a distant location to allow for travel plans, such applies to weddings, christenings, or any other important events.<ref>{{cite web|url=https://emilypost.com/advice/21st-century-wedding-trends|title=21st Century Wedding Trends|publisher=The Emily Post Institute, Inc.|access-date=2022-10-13}}</ref>


==Please RSVP==
==Modern-day RSVPs==
In recent years, the use of RSVP in the English language has spread outside of the discourse of highly formal correspondence and commonly figures in group emails. In this context, the initialism seems to have loosened its tie to its original meaning and is often understood simply as an abbreviation for "reply sender via post"{{citation needed|date=May 2022}}. Some writers therefore routinely use the phrase "Please RSVP",{{citation needed|date=May 2016}} which is a case of [[RAS syndrome]] or a [[pleonasm]].<ref>{{Cite news|last=Alford|first=Henry|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/14/style/the-aspirational-rsvp-saying-yes-when-you-mean-no.html|title=The Aspirational R.S.V.P.: Saying Yes When You Mean No|date=2015-06-12|work=The New York Times|access-date=2020-03-12|language=en-US|issn=0362-4331}}</ref>
In recent years, digital RSVPs have become common, particularly for wedding invitations.<ref>{{Cite news|last=Alford|first=Henry|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/10/fashion/how-the-internet-has-changed-the-rsvp.html|title=How the Internet Has Changed the R.S.V.P.|date=2013-11-08|work=The New York Times|access-date=2020-03-12|language=en-US|issn=0362-4331}}</ref> In this context, the initialism seems to have loosened its tie to its original meaning. Some people use the phrase "Please RSVP",<ref>{{Cite web |last=Hallemann |first=Caroline |date=22 June 2017 |title=The Etiquette Mistakes You Didn't Know You Were Making |url=https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/a10201362/etiquette-mistakes/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210725221041/https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/a10201362/etiquette-mistakes/ |archive-date=25 July 2021 |access-date=8 July 2022 |website=Town & Country}}</ref> which is a case of [[RAS syndrome]] (redundancy) or a [[pleonasm]], as "s'il vous plait" means "please".<ref>{{Cite news |last=Alford |first=Henry |date=2015-06-12 |title=The Aspirational R.S.V.P.: Saying Yes When You Mean No |language=en-US |work=The New York Times |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/14/style/the-aspirational-rsvp-saying-yes-when-you-mean-no.html |access-date=2020-03-12 |issn=0362-4331}}</ref>


==See also==
The phrase "Please RSVP" is considered incorrect by most invitation creators.
* [[iCalendar]]

==Modern-day RSVPs==
In the age of the internet, mobile phones and other technology, digital RSVPs are becoming common, particularly for wedding invitations.<ref>{{Cite news|last=Alford|first=Henry|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/10/fashion/how-the-internet-has-changed-the-rsvp.html|title=How the Internet Has Changed the R.S.V.P.|date=2013-11-08|work=The New York Times|access-date=2020-03-12|language=en-US|issn=0362-4331}}</ref>


==References==
==References==

Latest revision as of 07:38, 30 April 2024

For other uses, see RSVP (disambiguation).

RSVP is an initialism derived from the French phrase "Répondez s'il vous plaît",[1] meaning "Please respond" (literally "Respond, if it pleases you"), to require confirmation of an invitation. The initialism "RSVP" is no longer used much in France, where it is considered formal and old-fashioned. In France, it is now more common to use "Réponse attendue avant le ...", meaning "[Your] answer is expected before ...". In addition, the French initialism "SVP" is frequently used to represent "S'il vous plaît" ("Please").[2]

Variations[edit]

The phrase "RSVP, regrets only" or "Regrets only", is a popular modern variation that implies "if you do not reply, that will be taken as an acceptance." More specifically, if most invitations can be assumed to be accepted, a "regrets only" RSVP will reduce the communication required by both the host and the guests. The phrase "Regrets only" refers to the assumption that a declination will be worded with some variation of "We regret we cannot attend ...".[3]

Before sending the RSVP invitation, the host may mail out a "save the date" card to advise the date and location of the celebration. This may be used when the event will be held considerably in the future and/or in a distant location to allow for travel plans, such applies to weddings, christenings, or any other important events.[4]

Modern-day RSVPs[edit]

In recent years, digital RSVPs have become common, particularly for wedding invitations.[5] In this context, the initialism seems to have loosened its tie to its original meaning. Some people use the phrase "Please RSVP",[6] which is a case of RAS syndrome (redundancy) or a pleonasm, as "s'il vous plait" means "please".[7]

See also[edit]

References[edit]

Look up RSVP in Wiktionary, the free dictionary.
Look up répondez s'il vous plaît in Wiktionary, the free dictionary.
  1. ^ "Rsvp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire". www.linternaute.com (in French). Retrieved 2018-02-27.
  2. ^ "Svp : Définition simple et facile du dictionnaire". www.linternaute.com (in French). Retrieved 2018-02-27.
  3. ^ "RSVP vs. Regrets Only". www.announcingit.com. Invitation Do's and Don'ts.
  4. ^ "21st Century Wedding Trends". The Emily Post Institute, Inc. Retrieved 2022-10-13.
  5. ^ Alford, Henry (2013-11-08). "How the Internet Has Changed the R.S.V.P." The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2020-03-12.
  6. ^ Hallemann, Caroline (22 June 2017). "The Etiquette Mistakes You Didn't Know You Were Making". Town & Country. Archived from the original on 25 July 2021. Retrieved 8 July 2022.
  7. ^ Alford, Henry (2015-06-12). "The Aspirational R.S.V.P.: Saying Yes When You Mean No". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2020-03-12.
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