Coparenting

The principle of coparenting (Italian: Principio di bigenitorialità) states that a child has always and in any case the right to maintain a stable relationship with both parents, even if they are separated or divorced, unless there is a recognized need to separate him/her from one or both parents.

Such a right is based on the concept that to be a parent is a commitment that an adult takes with respect his/her children, not the other parent, so that it cannot and must not be influenced by any kind of separation among parents.

According to article 30 of Italian Constitution, to be a parent is both a right and a duty. As a right, it cannot be constrained by the agreement of a third party, even if it would be the other parent; as a duty, it is not possible to abdicate it as well as it is not possible to abdicate any decreed right.

The principle of coparenting opposes the habit to grant custody of a child exclusively to a single parent, and promotes the shared parenting as a protection of the right of children to continue to receive cares and love from both parents.

This principle was established in Italy at the beginning of the 21st century by the Associations of Separated Parents that for years have been fighting against a culture, a social mindset, and a legislative and legal system that is discriminating among genders in the conflicts between former partners, especially when children are involved. Such associations are in fact also committed to solve several problems related to separations and divorces, as international child abductions, parental alienation syndrome, and equal rights between genders in judical separations and divorces.

Note

This term is not really a neologism, since it already exists and is used in several scientific contests, as Psychology, Anthropology, and Biology. However, it's original meaning was mostly related to united families. However, since the Convention on the Rights of the Child, 20 November 1989, the fact that a child has to continue to maintain a strong relationship with both parents even if separated, has become more and more a recognized right. So, the concept of shared parenting was extended to separated and divorced families too. It should not to be confused with biparentality, term used in Biology and Genetics to designate the genetic inheritance of a living being from both parents.

Other languages

This term can be translated as bigenitorialità in Italian, coparentalité in French.

Related terms

• Fostering
• Family
• Families needs Fathers
• Parental alienation syndrome

External links

• Convention on the Rights of the Child New York
• Federazione Nazionale per la Bigenitorialità Italian Federation for Coparenting {Italian}
• Child Custody Parenting Plans - Focusing on the Children
• Coparenting While Living Apart
• Shared Parenting Information Group - SPIG UK