Wifesharing
Wifesharing ( English. Sharing the [wife]) is a sexual variety and means sharing the wife, partner or steadfast girlfriend with another man for the purpose of sexual intercourse .
background
The wifesharer and his partner do not have an imbalance in sexual intercourse from the start, although some wifesharers tend to be dominant. Most of the time, sexual activity takes place together. During sexual intercourse, the wifesharer forms a threesome with a man and the female partner , in some cases the wifesharer watches and enjoys the erotic situation with or without masturbation . In some partnerships, the wifesharer determines the woman's sexual partner. In rare cases, the wifesharer also accepts meetings between his partner and another man without himself. Wifesharers usually do not feel jealous.
The man called in is either a household friend with whom the couple has regular or occasional meetings, or they are changing acquaintances with whom the couple only has one or a few contacts.
Wifesharing became more popular in Western society from the 1960s / 1970s. The reasons are, among others, in the breaking of taboos and of erotic pleasure of the male parts, his own partner during sexual intercourse with another man to watch , the act itself to be observed to penetrate or partner at the same time with another man. On the other hand, one reason, of course, is the woman's desire to socialize with another man or to be observed during intercourse. As a result, the wifesharer would like to achieve greater sexual satisfaction and higher sexual satisfaction for his partner in the relationship. It is also often the couple's wish for a stronger partnership and for greater intimacy within the two-person relationship.
According to American statistics, it is around 99 percent of men who first formulate the idea and desire of wifesharing. 62.6 percent of the couples notice an improvement in their relationship after wifesharing, only 1.7 percent feel more unhappy afterwards.
Differentiation from the cuckold
Wifesharing and cuckolding (from English cuckold horned husband ) are not the same thing, but have serious differences. While the cuckold mostly has a submissive character, both inside and outside of the sexual relationship and is often physically inferior to the man drawn in and in terms of the expression of the sexual characteristics , the wifesharer is not submissive. He is at least equal physically and sexually and an equal or even dominant part in the three-person constellation. The wifesharer does not get his pleasure from jealousy , but from the erotic situation as such. In contrast to a cuckold constellation, a deeper affection of the partner for the second man is not desired, only the sexual component is in the foreground.
Differentiation from swingers
There are also serious differences when it comes to swinging . While the swinger allows his own wife to have sexual contact with others and may also have conversations with others himself, for example when swapping partners or in a swinger club , the wifesharer is mostly sexually fixated on his own partner, with her he would like to live out his special threesome fantasy.
Web links
- David J. Ley: Why would you do that? (Want to watch your wife with another man) . In Psychology Today on July 8, 2010.
- Study on erotic fantasies: The sex in the head . In Spiegel Online from October 31, 2014.
Individual evidence
- ↑ Markt.de, article Die Lust an der Wahl - What couples should consider when wifesharing , accessed on August 24, 2015.
- ↑ Examiner.com article Wife sharing: Not just a Vegas thing, November 8, 2013, accessed April 27, 2014.
- ↑ Examiner.com article Swinger wife: Wife sharing from a woman's perspective, December 16, 2013, accessed April 27, 2014.
- ↑ Curtis Bergstrand, Jennifer Blevins Williams: Today's Alternative Marriage Styles: The Case of Swingers . In: The Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, October 10, 2000, accessed January 9, 2020.