Erotic humiliation
Erotic humiliation is a technique used to create erotic or sexual arousal to the person who is being humiliated and humiliated. It can be viewed as a BDSM- related variety and part of sexual role play to increase the sexual stimulation of one or both partners in the act.
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In the case of humiliation, more generally a status game, the top forces the bottom to act humiliatingly or treats him in a degrading manner. A humiliating component can be present in virtually any practice, from bondage to slapping games. Strictly speaking, however, only those involved in a game can say whether an act is humiliating or not. For example, pet play can be highly humiliating or not at all. It is therefore also possible that one partner sees a humiliating component in one and the same game, but the other does not. Certain games are generally thought to have a humiliating component, such as scat .
There are a number of terms used for games that focus on a certain form of humiliation, such as cuckolding . A female top that prefers to humiliate is also called a humiliatrix in English.
Forms of humiliation
Because of the reasons described above, it is impossible to compile a complete catalog of humiliation games. This list only shows the most common games that can have a humiliating component, with a link to the relevant main entry.
Identity of the bottom
Assignment of degrading roles to the bottom (slave, maid, pupil, prisoner, animal); Change of sex (forced feminization), species (pet play) or age (adult baby); Transformation into an object (living furniture, doll).
Behavior of the top in relation to the bottom
Training the bottom in certain behaviors (see below); Verbal humiliation ("dirty talk"), cuckolding, using the bottom as an object, e.g. B. as a toilet (see Scat and pee ). Demonstrating the bottom to third parties.
Behavior of the bottom towards the top
The bottom has to address the top with a title like "Sir / Mylady" or "Herr / Herrin", may not look him in the face, may not speak of himself in the first person, has to lick his shoes or anus , perform various services (foot massages, oral sex, etc.). The bottom has to adopt submissive postures (kneeling) and forego his own satisfaction ( chastity , orgasm control ).
Appearance of the bottom
Display through nudity, special clothing such as chaps that leave the sexual organs free or clothing and jewelry ( ring of the O , collar ) that make his lower status (as a maid, TV maid, prostitute) clear; marking the bottom with tattoos, piercings, branding, etc.
fascination
A humiliation demonstrates the power of the top over the bottom. Hence the wide range of practices that can have a humiliating component: A bottom can find it humiliating that the top can beat him at will.
Some sadomasochists play with humiliation in order to provoke resistance from their counterpart. This can be, for example, the start of a playful scuffle or something similar in which the participants decide who will be top or because the active participant wants to wake up the fight sub-bie in his opponent. Humiliation is thus a means of (playful) provocation and at the same time an invitation to play.
Another proportion of those who play with humiliation use it as a means of getting into a game or of getting themselves (or their partner) back from wandering thoughts during a game. The most striking example of this is probably the slap in the face: for some people interested in sadomasochism, it is unthinkable to be slapped or to slap someone. For others, this can be an act that abruptly tears them out of everyday life and lets them focus on themselves and their partner.
literature
- Anna Magdalena Siblik: Investigation of the motifs in selected works by Dolorosa alias Maria Eichhorn with brief outlooks on Rachilde and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch . Vienna February 2011, p. 12 ff., 129 ff . ( othes.univie.ac.at [PDF; accessed on May 19, 2015]).
Web links
- Website SMiki ( Memento from December 21, 2011 in the Internet Archive )