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The main aspect of a handjob is to hold the penis with a loose fist and move the hand up and down on the [[Body of penis|shaft]], [[Glans penis|glans]], and [[Penile frenulum|frenulum]] or use the fingers to trail around those areas. The penis can even be stimulated with both hands. The movements and speed of the action may vary. [[Personal lubricant]]s are often used.<ref>{{cite book | last =Haberman | first =Hardy | authorlink = Hardy Haberman| title = Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment | publisher =[[Greenery Press]] | series = | volume = | edition = | date = 2001| location = | pages =6 | language = | url = https://books.google.com/books?id=m2mfpu5AZzgC&q=handjob+personal+lubricant&dq=handjob+personal+lubricant&hl=en&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&source=gb_mobile_search&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjUt4qL9deAAxVWNzQIHWbXDbgQ6AF6BAgHEAM#handjob%20personal%20lubricant| doi = | id = | isbn = | quote=Using water - based personal lube is a wonderful adjunct to almost any genital sex , and particularly for handjobs and masturbation . }}</ref> |
The main aspect of a handjob is to hold the penis with a loose fist and move the hand up and down on the [[Body of penis|shaft]], [[Glans penis|glans]], and [[Penile frenulum|frenulum]]<ref>{{cite book|last1=Carroll |first2=Janell L. |title = Sexuality Now: Embracing Diversity | publisher = Cengage Learning|year = 2015|page=243| access-date = September 13, 2023 |url = https://books.google.com/books/about/Sexuality_Now_Embracing_Diversity.html?id=cy9-BAAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&source=gb_mobile_entity&hl=en&gl=US}}</ref> or use the fingers to trail around those areas. The penis can even be stimulated with both hands. The movements and speed of the action may vary. [[Personal lubricant]]s are often used.<ref>{{cite book | last =Haberman | first =Hardy | authorlink = Hardy Haberman| title = Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment | publisher =[[Greenery Press]] | series = | volume = | edition = | date = 2001| location = | pages =6 | language = | url = https://books.google.com/books?id=m2mfpu5AZzgC&q=handjob+personal+lubricant&dq=handjob+personal+lubricant&hl=en&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&source=gb_mobile_search&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjUt4qL9deAAxVWNzQIHWbXDbgQ6AF6BAgHEAM#handjob%20personal%20lubricant| doi = | id = | isbn = | quote=Using water - based personal lube is a wonderful adjunct to almost any genital sex , and particularly for handjobs and masturbation . }}</ref> |
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Some may also touch the scrotum and manipulate the [[testicles]] by stroking with the fingers, tugging, placing it in the hand, or rubbing with the palm. |
Some may also touch the scrotum and manipulate the [[testicles]] by stroking with the fingers, tugging, placing it in the hand, or rubbing with the palm.<ref>{{cite book|last1=Carroll |first2=Janell L. |title = Sexuality Now: Embracing Diversity | publisher = Cengage Learning|year = 2015|page=243| access-date = September 13, 2023 |url = https://books.google.com/books/about/Sexuality_Now_Embracing_Diversity.html?id=cy9-BAAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&source=gb_mobile_entity&hl=en&gl=US}}</ref> |
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==Prevalence in massage parlors== |
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Revision as of 16:42, 13 September 2023
A handjob (also spelled hand job) is a manual sex act involving a person stimulating the penis or scrotum of another by using the hand. This is done to induce an erection for sexual pleasure, sexual arousal and may result in orgasm and ejaculation.[1]
A handjob can be performed as either foreplay or as non-penetrative sex. It is analogous to fingering (manual stimulation of the vulva or vagina). Someone may give a handjob so as not to engage in penetrative sexual activity. Besides avoiding the risks associated with sexual penetration, such as sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or pregnancy from penile-vaginal sex, some people engage in non-penetrative sex to preserve virginity.[2]
Practice
General
The main aspect of a handjob is to hold the penis with a loose fist and move the hand up and down on the shaft, glans, and frenulum[3] or use the fingers to trail around those areas. The penis can even be stimulated with both hands. The movements and speed of the action may vary. Personal lubricants are often used.[4]
Some may also touch the scrotum and manipulate the testicles by stroking with the fingers, tugging, placing it in the hand, or rubbing with the palm.[5]
Prevalence in massage parlors
In some massage parlors, a masseuse, whether as part of the massage itself or directly after it, may perform a handjob on their customer. This is sometimes known by the euphemism "happy ending".[6][7]
An investigation by Time Out New York in January 2011 found many New York City massage parlors advertising "sensual massage" and providing handjobs. The parlors charged from $60 to $160, with an extra tip for the sex workers (usually $40) for a massage and manual "happy ending". Most of the massage parlors reviewed were "rub and tug joints" where handjobs were the only sexual services provided, and there was a strict policy of the male clients not touching the female workers.[8]
See also
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- Beating off – manual stimulation of one's own penis as a form of masturbation
- Fellatio
- Footjob
- Hand fetishism
References
- ^ Handjob. Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. Retrieved September 20, 2020.
- ^ Bryan Strong; Christine DeVault; Theodore F. Cohen (2010). The Marriage and Family Experience: Intimate Relationship in a Changing Society. Cengage Learning. p. 186. ISBN 978-0-534-62425-5. Retrieved October 8, 2011.
Most people agree that we maintain virginity as long as we refrain from sexual (vaginal) intercourse. But occasionally we hear people speak of 'technical virginity' [...] Data indicate that 'a very significant proportion of teens ha[ve] had experience with oral sex, even if they haven't had sexual intercourse, and may think of themselves as virgins' [...] Other research, especially research looking into virginity loss, reports that 35% of virgins, defined as people who have never engaged in vaginal intercourse, have nonetheless engaged in one or more other forms of heterosexual sexual activity (e.g., oral sex, anal sex, or mutual masturbation).
- ^ Carroll (2015). Sexuality Now: Embracing Diversity. Cengage Learning. p. 243. Retrieved September 13, 2023.
{{cite book}}:|first2=missing|last2=(help) - ^ Haberman, Hardy (2001). Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment. Greenery Press. p. 6.
Using water - based personal lube is a wonderful adjunct to almost any genital sex , and particularly for handjobs and masturbation .
- ^ Carroll (2015). Sexuality Now: Embracing Diversity. Cengage Learning. p. 243. Retrieved September 13, 2023.
{{cite book}}:|first2=missing|last2=(help) - ^ Feifer, Jason (October 6, 2015). "I Booked a Massage at a High-End Resort and Got a Surprise Happy Ending". Maxim. Retrieved December 18, 2016.
- ^ "What It's Really Like To Get a Happy Ending Massage". Cosmopolitan. November 20, 2015. Retrieved December 18, 2016.
- ^ "Best happy-ending parlors". Time Out New York. January 25, 2011. Archived from the original on July 5, 2011.
- Carroll, Janell L. (January 1, 2018). Sexuality Now: Embracing Diversity. Cengage Learning. pp. 247, 249. ISBN 978-1-337-40499-0.
- Crooks, Robert L.; Baur, Karla (January 1, 2016). Our Sexuality. Cengage Learning. ISBN 978-1-305-88742-8.
- Barker, Meg John (April 9, 2018). The Psychology of Sex. Taylor & Francis. ISBN 978-1-317-19704-1. "In all I read sixty-five sex advice books...I also looked at a large number of newspaper problem pages and websites. My colleagues...studied sex-related TV documentaries and magazine articles.[...]On average around 17% of the books I looked at were dedicated to PIV [penis-in-vagina] intercourse, compared to...4% on manual sex (using hands)"
- Bruess, Clint E.; Schroeder, Elizabeth (May 30, 2013). Sexuality Education Theory And Practice. Jones & Bartlett Publishers. p. 151, 301. ISBN 978-1-4496-4928-9. Retrieved September 19, 2020.
manual masturbation...often called a 'hand job' when performed on a penis
- Laura M. Carpenter (2005). Virginity Lost: An Intimate Portrait of First Sexual Experiences. NYU Press. pp. 47, 234. ISBN 978-0-8147-1652-6. Retrieved October 9, 2011.
- "Great sex without intercourse", NVSH (contains graphics of sexual acts)
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